Wedding readings

Search and filter readings for your wedding ceremony. Classic poems and passages that are out of copyright are printed in full, so you can copy them for your reader or the order of service.

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A reading is a lovely way to include someone special in the ceremony. Start with the filters below: whether your ceremony is religious or civil, how long you'd like the reading to be, and whether you want something romantic, about marriage itself, or light-hearted. Each reading has a short note on why couples choose it and roughly how long it takes to read aloud.

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20 readings

Sonnet 116

William Shakespeare

About 1 minute to read Non-religiousClassic poetryAbout marriage

"Let me not to the marriage of true minds admit impediments." The best-known wedding sonnet, about a love that doesn't change when times are hard.

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

Sonnet 18

William Shakespeare

About 1 minute to read Non-religiousClassic poetryRomantic

"Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?" A love poem that almost everyone knows from the first line. Lovely for a summer wedding.

Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer's lease hath all too short a date;
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimm'd;
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance or nature's changing course untrimm'd;
But thy eternal summer shall not fade,
Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow'st;
Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st:
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

How do I love thee? (Sonnet 43)

Elizabeth Barrett Browning

About 1 minute to read Classic poetryRomantic

Counts the ways she loves her husband. Romantic and well known. It mentions God and saints, so in England and Wales it may not be allowed at a civil ceremony.

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day's
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right.
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints. I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

A Red, Red Rose

Robert Burns

About 1 minute to read Non-religiousClassic poetryRomantic

Burns's love song, promising to love "till a' the seas gang dry". A favourite at Scottish weddings, and lovely read in a Scottish accent if you have one.

O my Luve is like a red, red rose
That's newly sprung in June;
O my Luve is like the melody
That's sweetly played in tune.

So fair art thou, my bonnie lass,
So deep in luve am I;
And I will luve thee still, my dear,
Till a' the seas gang dry.

Till a' the seas gang dry, my dear,
And the rocks melt wi' the sun;
I will luve thee still, my dear,
While the sands o' life shall run.

And fare thee weel, my only luve!
And fare thee weel awhile!
And I will come again, my luve,
Though it were ten thousand mile.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

He Wishes for the Cloths of Heaven

W. B. Yeats

Under a minute to read Non-religiousClassic poetryRomanticShort

Eight lines about giving the person you love your dreams. Short, beautiful and easy to read aloud.

Had I the heavens' embroidered cloths,
Enwrought with golden and silver light,
The blue and the dim and the dark cloths
Of night and light and the half-light,
I would spread the cloths under your feet:
But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

The Owl and the Pussy-cat

Edward Lear

About 2 minutes to read Non-religiousLight-heartedClassic poetry

The nonsense poem about an owl and a cat who sail away and get married. Guests love it, and it works well read by a child or a grandparent.

The Owl and the Pussy-cat went to sea
In a beautiful pea-green boat,
They took some honey, and plenty of money,
Wrapped up in a five-pound note.
The Owl looked up to the stars above,
And sang to a small guitar,
"O lovely Pussy! O Pussy, my love,
What a beautiful Pussy you are,
You are,
You are!
What a beautiful Pussy you are!"

Pussy said to the Owl, "You elegant fowl!
How charmingly sweet you sing!
O let us be married! too long we have tarried:
But what shall we do for a ring?"
They sailed away, for a year and a day,
To the land where the Bong-Tree grows
And there in a wood a Piggy-wig stood
With a ring at the end of his nose,
His nose,
His nose,
With a ring at the end of his nose.

"Dear pig, are you willing to sell for one shilling
Your ring?" Said the Piggy, "I will."
So they took it away, and were married next day
By the Turkey who lives on the hill.
They dined on mince, and slices of quince,
Which they ate with a runcible spoon;
And hand in hand, on the edge of the sand,
They danced by the light of the moon,
The moon,
The moon,
They danced by the light of the moon.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

On Marriage

Kahlil Gibran, from The Prophet

About 2 minutes to read About marriage

About staying close while giving each other room to grow. One of the most popular readings at non-religious weddings. It mentions God and a temple, so check with your registrar if you're having a civil ceremony in England or Wales.

You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

Grow old along with me

Robert Browning, from Rabbi Ben Ezra (extract)

Under a minute to read ShortClassic poetryAbout marriage

"The best is yet to be." Six lines that suit any couple, and especially an older couple or a vow renewal. It mentions God, so it may not suit a civil ceremony.

Grow old along with me!
The best is yet to be,
The last of life, for which the first was made:
Our times are in His hand
Who saith "A whole I planned,
Youth shows but half; trust God: see all, nor be afraid!"

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

No union is more profound than marriage

Justice Anthony Kennedy, Obergefell v. Hodges (2015) (extract)

Under a minute to read Non-religiousAbout marriageShort

The closing words of the US Supreme Court ruling that made same-sex marriage legal across the United States. A popular reading at weddings of every kind. As a court ruling, it is free for anyone to use.

No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family. In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than once they were. As some of the petitioners in these cases demonstrate, marriage embodies a love that may endure even past death.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

Love (Charity)

The Bible, 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, King James Version

Under a minute to read ReligiousAbout marriage

The best-known wedding reading of all. Most churches now read a modern translation, where "charity" becomes "love" ("Love is patient, love is kind"). Ask your minister which version they use.

Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;

Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

Charity never faileth.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

Whither thou goest

The Bible, Ruth 1:16-17, King James Version

Under a minute to read ReligiousShort

Ruth's promise to Naomi to go wherever she goes. Not written about marriage, but often read at weddings as a promise of loyalty.

Intreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God:

Where thou diest, will I die, and there will I be buried: the LORD do so to me, and more also, if ought but death part thee and me.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

Set me as a seal upon thine heart

The Bible, Song of Solomon 8:6-7, King James Version

Under a minute to read ReligiousRomanticShort

"Many waters cannot quench love." A short, romantic passage from the Bible's book of love poetry.

Set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love is strong as death; jealousy is cruel as the grave: the coals thereof are coals of fire, which hath a most vehement flame.

Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

Two are better than one

The Bible, Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, King James Version

Under a minute to read ReligiousAbout marriageShort

About two people helping each other up. Ends with "a threefold cord is not quickly broken", which many couples read as the two of them and God.

Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.

For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.

Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?

And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

Out of copyright. Free to read aloud and to print.

i carry your heart with me

E. E. Cummings

Non-religiousRomanticShort

A short, modern love poem that many couples choose. Still in copyright.

We haven't printed this one. Search for the title to find the words, and check with your registrar or celebrant before printing it.

Love is a temporary madness

Louis de Bernières, from Captain Corelli's Mandolin

Non-religiousAbout marriage

A passage about the difference between being in love and the love that remains afterwards, like the roots of two trees. Hugely popular at UK weddings. Still in copyright.

We haven't printed this one. Search for the title to find the words, and check with your registrar or celebrant before printing it.

Variation on the Word Sleep

Margaret Atwood

Non-religiousRomantic

A tender poem that ends with wanting to be "the air that inhabits you". Still in copyright.

We haven't printed this one. Search for the title to find the words, and check with your registrar or celebrant before printing it.

The Velveteen Rabbit

Margery Williams

Non-religiousLight-heartedAbout marriage

The passage where the Skin Horse explains to the Rabbit what it means to become "Real". Warm and a little funny, and good for a reader who isn't keen on poetry. We haven't printed it here, so read it from a copy of the book.

We haven't printed this one. Search for the title to find a version you like.

Sonnet XVII (I do not love you as if you were salt-rose)

Pablo Neruda

Non-religiousRomantic

A passionate love poem, usually read in English translation. Still in copyright, and the translation will be too.

We haven't printed this one. Search for the title to find the words, and check with your registrar or celebrant before printing it.

The Art of Marriage

Wilferd A. Peterson

Non-religiousAbout marriage

A list of the small things that make a marriage work. Popular at American weddings. Still in copyright.

We haven't printed this one. Search for the title to find the words, and check with your registrar or celebrant before printing it.

Apache Wedding Blessing

Written for the 1950 film Broken Arrow

Non-religiousShort

"Now you will feel no rain." Often described as a traditional blessing, but it was written for a Hollywood film, so it may still be in copyright.

We haven't printed this one. Search for the title to find the words, and check with your registrar or celebrant before printing it.

How to choose

Read a few aloud together and notice which ones you'd be happy to hear on the day. A short classic poem suits almost any wedding. A passage about marriage, such as "On Marriage" or "Two are better than one", says something about the life you're starting. A light-hearted reading like "The Owl and the Pussy-cat" works well when read by a child or a grandparent, and gives the guests a smile before the vows.

If you're having a civil ceremony in England or Wales, readings must not be religious, and the registrar will usually want to see them in advance. Use the Non-religious filter, and send your choices to the register office early. Church, humanist and celebrant-led ceremonies have more freedom, but it's still worth checking with whoever is leading the ceremony.

Tips for the reader

  • Give your reader the words at least a few weeks before, so they can practise out loud.
  • Print it in a large font and put it in a small folder. It looks neater than a phone and won't go dark.
  • Ask them to read more slowly than feels natural and to pause at the end of each verse.
  • Old words like "thee" and "thou" can trip people up, so a couple of read-throughs makes a big difference.

Writing your own promises too? See our wedding vows guide , or see the order of the wedding speeches for later in the day.

Common questions

Can you have a religious reading at a civil ceremony?

Not in England and Wales. Readings at a civil ceremony at a register office or approved venue must not be religious, and the registrar will usually ask to see them in advance. Poems that mention God, such as Sonnet 43, may not be allowed.

What are the most popular wedding readings in the UK?

Shakespeare's Sonnet 116, the passage from Captain Corelli's Mandolin and 1 Corinthians 13 ("Love is patient, love is kind") are among the most often chosen.

How many readings should a wedding have?

One or two is usual. Each takes one to two minutes. At a register office, ceremonies are short, so check how many the registrar allows.

Who reads at a wedding?

Usually someone the couple wants to include who isn't already giving a speech: a grandparent, a sibling, a close friend or a godparent.